Dekho bhai pehle to rishta lagnaich badi lambi kahani rehti
hyderabad mein, kuch to bi rahne deo bhai, chalo shuru karinge....
Ghar ke baazu bacchiyaan rahte, rishte daaraon mein bacchiyaan
rahte, magar na ladke ko na ladke ki amma ko koi bacchi pasand aati,
jaake matrimonial ke daftaraon mein naam likhaate naama wo
matrimonial ke, (khair ab to dinaan bi badalrain, potte tez hogae,
pottiyaan bi tez hogae, sub kaaman net pe karlerain, wo shaadi.com
hai nae, wiase bhot khulgae aajkal net pe, ye naseeb.com pe bi
aajkal bhot logaan mil lerain, ab wo net me mil lerain udarich sub
nain matakka hojaara, mil lerain, dekh lerain, dikhaalerain, sub
hojaara phir jaake idar potta udar potti amma ko bolrain, ammi
mereko wo bacchi se shaadi karma hai, but in most of other cases,
its still a traditional way where in groom's mother is solely
responsible to find a bride for her (beloved) son! Be it first or
last…) Ab baari aati, ladkiyon ku dekhne ki, ghar mein, car rahi to car
mein nae to bus mein jaane waale bi auto mein jaate ladki ku dekhne
kaiku bolay to ruaab se jaana naa, ladke waale hai! Kon kon jaate
bolay to ladke ki amma, bhainaan, agar bhabi rahay to uno (alag nae
hogae to) bi jaate, Ghar se nikalne se pahleich zimmedaariyaan batt jaate ladke ki amma
subko bolte ke rukhsana tum ladki ki amma pe nazar rakkho (amma tez
rahi to ladki bi tezich rahti!!!), durdaana tum zara ghar ku dekho
un logaon ka rahan sahan, rizwaana tum naa ladki peich nazar rakkho,
mai bi dekhtiyoon agar kuch to bi bhulgae to tum bi dekhna (fall
back option). Ab idar ladki ki amma ka lecture ghar mein, ghar mein zoraon se
tayyariyaan, Ladki ki amma ladki ku bolte rahte, tu hasti bhot, has
nakko unlogaon ke saamne, moo nakko khol, jitta puche uttaich bol..
unlogaan kuch to bi poochay aur samajh mein nae aaya to chup baith,
main puchtiyoon terese khulla khulla jab bolna …phir ladki ka full
make up hota n all. Ladki ka koi bhai agar zara lathoor kisam ka
raha to usko boldete ke tum nakko raho aaj 9 bajay se 4 bajay tak,
us din uska tadi paar rahta. Khair, jab ladki ku dekhne ka din aata to Idar se ladke ki amma
bhainaan jaate n phir ladki waalaon ke ghar mein badi aau bhagat
hoti, khaate peete, phir hallu se aati ladki aur subku salaam karke
baith jaati, ladke ki amma bolte, idar aao bete zara (walking test)
mere bazu baitho, idar dekho (eye test), phir haat pakad ke dekhte,
poore paanch ungliyaan hai ke nae, idar se shuru hoti karwae…phir
bolte, aapka naam kya hai (arey kya isam nawesi mein nae dekhay
naam?) infact this is speech test. Sub hojaane ke ladke ki maa
bolti, aapa (matlab ladki ki maa) ab ham jaate, ham aapku ek do din
mein jawab dinge, saari baaten sirf aurtaon ki hoti, koi mard ismein
shaamil nae rahta... Ab agar gaadi mein aae to driver ko bolte gaadi
lao door ke paas n wapis hojaate, ya phir agar auto mein aae to kon
to jaake auto chukaa ke laate, aur ladke ke amma bhainaan chalay
jaate. Jaisich gaadi mein baithay, geebaataan shuru hotay! Ladki ki amma ko
dekhe kaisi thi, itta make up kari bichaari dikhra tha ke unkuch
dekhne aae? Ladki thoda kaisa ki chalri thi ji ammi, main phir se bolongi boli
chalke dikhao bolke magar nae boli kya samajhte ki bolke! Wo biscuitaan kaanse laae thay ki mereko to ek bi nae khae gaya. Aae chae mein shakkar bi kam thi, aisi kya to bi hai, kya sugar
patientaan hai kya? (Comments on servings Ladki ki badi bhain saamne nae aae kuch to bi hai kya usko? Subse badi waali bacchon ke saath thi ghar mein thi, kaeen miyaan
chor diya kya? Ladki ke bhai ke baalaan dekhay, choti daal sakte ekich dam laathoor
dikhra tha. Ab ye chakkar tab tak chate rahta jab tak koi ladki pasand nae
aajaati. Until this moment, ladka maximum sirf Photuaan dekh sakta
ladkiyon ke (no more access for him)! Ab ladki agar koi pasand aagae
to phir mardaane mein baat cheet shuru hoti, jahez lene waalay apni
list pesh karte, phir uspe discussions hotay, phir maher ki baat
hoti phir baaz waqat ye bi hota ke shaadi ke din chae paani rakhinge
(ye ladki waale karte), valeema (ladke waale karte) mein dono milke
karinge, kaiku bolay to ladki waalaon ki shaadi mein khaane ke paise
bach jaate naa. Khair, sub hojaane ke baad rasam ki date fix hoti. Rasam se rishte ki karwae shuru hoti (hau hamare hyderabad mein
engagement ku rasam bolte). Rasam haisiyat ke hisaab se ya ghar pe
ya phir shaadi khaane mein hota (mostly it is in marriage halls
these days). Ab ismein bi do baataan hai dekho, agar ladka udarich
hyderabad meich raha aur rasam function hall mein hua to to phir
dulay ki kursi aati uspe baithta ladka, Rasam mein khaas khaas
logaon kuch daawat dete, phir angothiyon (rings) ka xchange hota,
ladki waale ladke ku angothi pinaate and ladke waale ladki ko. Phir khaana khilaate, biryaani, dahi ki chatni, bagaare baigan,
naan, kheema, double ka mittha, ye sub pahle ke dishaan hai, ab
latest chalra Hyderabad mein, bhot nae nae dishaan banrain, nae nae
naaman, nae nae taste, nae nae kharchay haisiyat ke mutabiq! (Most
likely, expenses of this one single gathering will be sound enough
for the whole marriage expenses in other states) Video lete,
photuaan kheenchte aur bhot maza aata. Ab agar ladka baaher(abroad)
raha to samjo ke video ke beech beech mein ladke ke photuaan bataate
rahta, alag alag posaon mein. Ab agar kaeen rasam ghar mein hua to samjho roof (terrace pe) khaana
khilaate mardaane ku aur aazu baazu ke pados se roomaan lelete
logaon ku bithaane, ghar ke saamne shamiyanaa lagaate, udar
kursiyaan daalke bi bithaate. Ab aisi jaga bichaara ladka bi kaaman
karta. Hyderabad mein Zanaana ek taraf khaana khaata aur mardaana ek
taraf! Matlab ke dono alag alag khaate.... Rasam hojaane ke baad baday logaan baithke shaadi ki taareeq tae
karte. |
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